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Cyberhate Must Be Stopped – it Must Not Stop Us

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Women and men contributing to the public debate are being increasingly subjected to cyberhate and threats. As a government official and Member of Parliament for many years, I have personal experience of the problem.

As Norwegian Minister for Health, I was at the forefront of introducing the world’s most stringent legislation on smoking. This triggered a period in which I was subjected to hateful comments and personal threats.

In the decade that has passed since then, cyberhate has become a growing problem in society. Cyberhate often comprises spreading rumors, slander and threats on the basis of sex, gender identity, religious belief, ethnicity or sexual orientation.

Polarized political climate
I am convinced that cyberhate has its roots in, and is stimulated by, an increasingly polarized political climate and a more brutal political rhetoric, and it is no coincidence who the most common victims are. All participants in the public debate carry a responsibility to avoid such a development.

According to international research, cyber-violence has a clear and important gender-based dimension. Women are exposed to sexualized hatred and rape threats – simply because they are seen and heard in the debate. They are also victims of revenge pornography and cyber-rape by men who want to humiliate and objectify them, destroy their reputations, and make them feel vulnerable, ashamed and afraid.

Men are very rarely subjected to the same type of sexualized cyber-violence. This has gender-discriminatory effects: cyberhate limits women’s opportunities to write, work, and express their opinions in the Internet environment, giving them far less capacity than men to operate in the digital world.

Gender equality as an instrument
The sixtieth session of the Commission on the Status of Women (CSW), which will take place in New York, starts on March 14th. CSW is the largest intergovernmental body dedicated to promotion of gender equality in the world, and every year attracts many thousands of participants.

The theme of this year’s commission is the UN’s 17 goals for sustainable development on which countries agreed last year. The priority theme is Women’s Empowerment and Its Link to Sustainable Development.

Six Nordic government ministers for gender equality will be participating in at the CSW. They will be emphasizing that gender equality is not just a sustainability goal in itself, but a necessary instrument for reaching all the other sustainability goals.
Top positions

Many participants will be interested in what the Nordic government ministers have to say, because they represent the region in the world that has come furthest in terms of gender equality. The Nordic countries have been collaborating on gender equality for 40 years, through forums such as the Nordic Council of Ministers. The success of this work is shown in global surveys, such as the World Economic Forum Gender Gap Index, where Sweden, Norway, Iceland and Finland have held top positions since 2006.

However, rather than highlighting its own successes, the Nordic region is seeking to establish international collaboration on tackling threats against gender equality.

International Women’s Day’s #pledgeforparity is holding women back

Rather than just asking to be equal with men, on IWD 2016 couldn’t we instead ask how we can improve the world for both men and women?

Another year, another International Women’s Day (IWD) – and yes, before anyone asks in the comments, there is an International Men’s Day. I’ve written before about how important it is that we have at least one day a year which highlights the disparity in rights, freedoms and economics between men and women, but this year even I am questioning the point of it. Not because I think we’ve finally hit equality, far from it, but because this year’s campaign pledge for parity seems so completely toothless.

Looking at what the official IWD website is asking of its pledgees, it seems to be little more than a vague commitment to treating people like human beings. The IWD website includes a page of “global leaders” such as Sir Richard Branson and, errr, a few CEOs of businesses you might have heard of, possibly. They’re all citing their commitment to the pledge for parity. But when that pledge requires such basics as “helping all women and girls achieve their ambitions” and promising to “value men and women’s contributions equally”, it doesn’t exactly seem like world changing stuff. When did we get so obsessed with parity anyway? The more I look around the world, the less convinced I become that the definition of success we’re trying to shoehorn women into is really that successful at all. Rather than calling for parity, shouldn’t we be calling for progress?

 

County Restaurant Week 2023 – Best Deals

Bistro 100

Best. Sonoma County Restaurant Week. Ever.

After six years of trial and error, the more than 100 regional restaurants participating in this year’s Sonoma County Restaurant Week (March 7-13, 2016) have dialed it in with great meals at great prices for 2016.

I’m more impressed with the lineup this year than I’ve ever been before, perhaps because restaurateurs have discovered that the event can be a huge economic boon during the quiet winter season. Now that the economy has turned around, locals are getting into the groove of the annual event, which also helps considerably.

Bistro 100

If this is your first rodeo, here’s the deal: Participating restaurants offer prix fixe menus throughout the week with prices of $10 and $15 for lunch; $19, $29 and $39 for dinner. It’s a great way to try out a new spot or get a great deal at a favorite restaurant, and the range of prices means there’s something for every pocketbook. A dietary note: Most of the menus include vegetarian options, but if you have specific dietary needs, it’s a good idea to contact the restaurant in advance.

After perusing the menus posted at the Sonoma County Restaurant Week website, we’ve pulled out some of the best bets in terms of overall value, menu and our own experiences at the restaurants during the other 51 weeks of the year.

The $15 lunches and $29 dinners seem to be the sweet spot for the most choices, though the $39 dinners are a steal at some of Sonoma County’s swankier eateries.

This list doesn’t include everyone, so if you don’t see a fave, the restaurant may now have posted a menu, or the cost-to-deliciousness ratio just didn’t rank high on our radar. Since we haven’t tasted each menu, we can’t promise these will all be winners, but it’s certainly a solid place to start. Also, make sure to check out the Sonoma County Restaurant Week website to find hours, since some restaurants are closed Monday and Tuesday.

BITECLUB BEST BETS FOR RESTAURANT WEEK 2016

Sonoma County Restaurant Week menu at Pongo’s in Petaluma

$10 Lunch Best Bet, Pongo’s Kitchen and Tap: Crispy rolls with sweet sour plum sauce; coconut filled with red curry, lobster, prawn, calamari, scallops and mussels served with steamed jasmine rice; ice cream sampler. 701 Sonoma Mt. Parkway, Suite C8, Petaluma.

$15 Lunch Best Bet, Backyard: Wild mushroom soup with creme fraiche and salsa verde; buttermilk fried chicken sandwich (or bacon, lettuce and kimchi sando); candy cap mushroom ice cream. 6566 Front St., Forestville.

Chef John and Gesine Franchetti of Franchetti’s Wood-Fired Oven, Events and Catering.

More $15 Lunch Picks
Franchetti’s Woodfire Kitchen: Truffle burrata on ricotta polenta with sautéed tomatoes, braised water buffalo with fingerling potatoes, homemade jelly doughnut or pie of the day. 1229 N. Dutton Ave., Santa Rosa

La Rosa Tequileria: Octopus tostada, carnitas torta, Mexican chocolate mousse. 500 Fourth St., Santa Rosa.

Canneti Roadhouse: Pork shoulder with baked beans and herbs, crispy chicken over fava pesto with pasta and Pecorino cheese. 6675 Front St., Forestville.

 

Olivier Rousteing Designs Kim Kardashian-Inspired Collection

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There’s absolutely no way to mention Balmain without also acknowledging creative director Olivier Rousteing, his BFFs the Kardashians and his squad of supermodel friends. The brand drove the point home this season with a show that starred Kendall…

Coffee Break: Taylor Headphones

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frends headphones

I got a pair of Frends headphones with BaubleBar credits a while ago, and am surprised by how much I really like them. The sound quality is good, although I’m not terribly picky about that, and in addition to the stylishness and sheer prettiness of the headphones, one of my favorite features is the cord. This is an odd thing to call out, but here’s what I like: it’s fabric. It doesn’t tangle or get kinks in it, and it lays flat and is easy to manage. These “oil slick” headphones are even cooler than the white/rose gold pair I got, and they’re part of the big ShopBop sale: they’re normally $200, but with code SHOPEVENT they come down to 15-25% off, depending on how much you spend. (Arrgh, correction, the 15% discount doesn’t kick in until you spend $250.) FRENDS Taylor Headphones

Here’s our last discussion on the propriety of headphones at the office…

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REVIEW: “Clues in Highland Park”

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For the past few episodes, we’ve mostly talked about the strengths of Human Revolution, arguably one of the greatest games in human history. But even with a Metacritic score of 90, no game is perfect – and the chapter we review today encapsulates how the game suffers when it strays from the pillars of feminist gaming…

 

 

FEMINIST PLAYTHROUGH

“HUMAN REVOLUTION” (2011)

 

CHAPTER #04

“CLUES IN HIGHLAND PARK”

Hello, and welcome to the fourth episode of this miniseries.

As you know from prior episodes, we’ve been playing “Human Revolution”.

For the past few episodes, we’ve mostly talked about the game’s positives.

After all, this is a game that revolves around empowering players.

You play Adam Jensen, security chief at biotech firm Sarif Industries.

Some of your scientist co-workers disappeared in a mysterious attack.

Now your job is to find out what became of them, assuming they’re still alive.

However, this isn’t a game where you solve problems by gunning people down.

Rather, you have a choice in how you do your job.

In fact, the easiest way is usually to not kill people.

You can ask people for information, negotiate for their help, or just avoid them.

Sounds fantastic, right?

After all, feminist gaming isn’t only about female characters.

It’s about choosing the character you wish to be.

Does a game force you to be a gun-toting sociopath, like James Bond?

Or can you choose a higher path, where you treat others like human beings?

For the most part, “Human Revolution” encourages player choice.

However, “Human Revolution” isn’t perfect.

And the game suffers when it wanders from its choice-driven foundation.

The biggest example would be the boss fights.

Here, we’re facing the game’s first boss, Lawrence Barrett.

Lawrence is one of the mercenaries who attacked Sarif Industries months ago.

You can see we have no option to talk him down, or sneak by him.

We can only fight him, which contradicts the game’s ethos.

Predictably, these fights were critically reviled upon the game’s release.

To be fair, the developers did admit those fights were poorly designed.

In 2013, they updated the game to add more freedom to boss fights.

Here, we’re able to hide in an air vent, so we can attack Lawrence from above.

Still, the game requires us to kill him.

This is uncharacteristic of a franchise that revolves around player choice.

Later, fans learned these fights had actually been outsourced.

To save time, the developers had hired an outside company to design the fights.

This explains why the boss fights differ greatly from the rest of the game.

We can only hope future sequels will avoid repeating that mistake.

The shallowness of the fights points to a deeper issue.

The fights are shallow, because the bosses themselves are shallow characters.

They’re trying to kill you because as mercenaries, it’s their job.

And that’s pretty much it.

The bosses have no real depth to them, aside from generic, cartoony villainy.

Another problem is the lack of female enemies.

This pertains not only to mercenaries, but all factions in-game.

Sure, the game has female civilians, co-workers and scientists.

But apart from Yelena Fedorova, every enemy with a gun is male.

This applies even to mercenary military contractors.

 

Deal Alert: The ShopBop BigEvent Sale

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shopbop sale workwear picks

I thought I’d take a quick swing through the ShopBop sale to see what’s good, and there’s a lot to like. Like I’ve mentioned before: this twice-yearly event is when Amazon’s sister site offers up to 25% off almost everything on site, including a ton of great basics like Ferragamo, Stuart Weitzman, Black Halo, Theory, Vince, LK Bennett, Rebecca Minkoff, Tory Burch, Hunter, DvF, Smythe, Rag & Bone, vintage Vuitton, and Michael Michael Kors’ Jet Set collection. (I particularly love their jewelry collection and their denim collection — both are always hip and interesting.) Another pro: it seems like there are a lot less exclusions than in previous years. The sale ends March 5.

In addition to the general suggestions above, here are a few individual picks for work and beyond:

 

 

 

How All the Single Ladies gets at the heart of US history

Jessica Valenti interviews author Rebecca Traister about how she uncovered rich accounts of social progress intertwining with changing marriage patterns – and single women were at the front and center of change

Rebecca Traister, author and writer at large for New York magazine, is one of the foremost feminist writers in the country. Her 2008 book, Big Girls Don’t Cry took an in-depth look at Hillary Clinton’s last presidential run and how it marked a watershed moment in feminism. Her new book, All the Single Ladies: Unmarried Women and the Rise of an Independent Nation, was released this week. She took some time out from her book tour to talk with the Guardian.

Jessica: You wove some of your own personal story of single (and married) life throughout this book – tell me a little bit about how the idea for this book came about and how your own story influenced you.